Dear Grimsy:

My advice to you is do not try to talk with him at this point. First understand what happened- then, with a correct understanding, decide whether to contact him or not. I would like to help you understand what happened. We can go back and forth for that aim, if you want. So I will ask you first:

In your understanding, as is, what was or is the nature of your anger at him? How did you or do you believe that he wronged you?
anita