i guess i will just continue the conversation i have with the girls who i am still maintaining conversations with on tinder. Probably i will also gradually lessen my usage of it.

Sure. You should ask yourself why you want to do those two things.

do you know of any book about emotional intelligence ?

I compared a few book descriptions and ended up reading two: 1) Daniel Goleman’s Emotional Intelligence, 2) Paul Ekman’s Emotions Revealed books.

Goleman is solid start. Good that you found it.

I responded to that girl, though now i have to practice being patient with not getting instant results, as you said. Sometimes, she reply slow, so i can use that to improve on my patience and cut down on my anxiety.

If you want to go down this path with Tinder, increase the number. You’ll get numb real quickly.

• This reply was modified 8 years, 6 months ago by Brie.