Dear Anita,

Thank you so much again for your insight! I actually have a therapy appointment today, and am going to bring up a lot of what you wrote. It’s amazing how this stuff starts to make sense when you didn’t even realize it was happening. Your insight is extremely appreciated.

And yes, I look back and realize that I was the perfect target for him, and he for me. These are things that I absolutely need to be aware of moving forward.