Dear Katrina:

You wrote that you are not asking for advice, only what (the reader) thinks: I don’t know how to tell you what I think without it being also advising. Well, I think that given his heart issues and him landing in the ER following you breaking up with him, if indeed he could have died as a result of the breakup, I think it is very important that you don’t break up with him again. The surest way to not break up with him again is to not get back together with him.

For his health, I would think that is the responsible thing for you to do.

And for your health, if I was you, I’d go live my life and enjoy being childish, funny and hyper, those things you mentioned about yourself.

anita