Dear Neverland:

So now it is a matter of faith: what you believe in. I don’t believe our individual futures are predetermined. And I don’t believe in a god or universe that is paying attention to my personal affairs. And I don’t believe it is possible to read minds- although it is possible to study a person’s facial expressions, body language and mostly, it is possible to study and evaluate what a person says and doesn’t say and what a person does.

I think what is most important is for you to confront your fears of being hurt in a possible intimate relationship, and to interact with people authentically, get busy interacting instead of getting lost in abstract thinking.

anita