Hi Nina Sakura,

It could be that the energy you’re picking up is incongruent with what is being shown. Like someone could say and do all the right things, yet you don’t feel it from this person. You try to intellectualize your experience, and coming up with no answers, you blame yourself.

Or, as anita suggested, it could be parent issues. It was never “safe” emotionally to get too close/attached. And now for the first time in your life you’re feeling all these emotions and projecting them onto this guy with the fear that you will be let down.

One thing is for sure: Nothing beats face to face real time contact.

Blessings,

Inky