Thanks Anita. I guess I just feel that if he were a heart person he would have defied his family somehow and opted to be with me. My friend has pointed out to me that I’m missing the point – and that at the point in time when they were applying all that pressure for him to take their route, it was the least likely time he’d break free and walk away from them. I’m still not quite sure I understand what she means by that, but she’s not surprised in the slightest that things panned out the way they did.