Bah, thought I had posted but apparently didn’t. Learned more about that woman, she apparently had been using the guy too. She knew the relationship wasn’t going anywhere but she kept him strung along to get stuff done with her house.

Kind of think that is why the on/off approach to me. Noticed a trend of her being friendly, dressing and acting somewhat provocatively toward me being followed by wanting something. My gut is telling me that she knows I still have feelings for her, and she is trying to manipulate that.

So, how do you fully pull the plug on somebody who you truly care deeply about? This is where empathy really sucks.

Had not pursued more self-work this week on emotional intelligence. Got wrapped up in the press of work. It is so easy to fall back into old patterns.

I thank you all for your support and ideas on this forum 🙂