Dear James:

And I agree with you: it is a risk- she may like it if you go to her place of work and she may not: she may strongly dislike it like one of the people responding above and she may less intensely dislike it like other repliers, or she may dislike it some at first, then be okay with it. Don’t know. So it is a risk. Since you can’t send her a direct message online, it is between giving it up and taking that risk. As long as you are doing nothing illegal (trespassing/ disturbing the peace…) and as long as you are prepared for a negative response from her, do it.

I like the boldness of you going to her place of work, personally- because she advertised it (if not, then I would definitely be against it!) I like your initiative and courage.

Post again with an update: I am curious to know how it works out.

anita