Hi Kadidja,

I think it’s natural to drift away from your old friends, especially in college. This makes way for a more different kind of friendship.

When we’re younger, we naturally want to be with our BFFs 24/7. But when you’re an adult, you find if you see your friends once a month, that is a triumph. It’s just different. Life, work, relationships, school… and perhaps later moving and a new family… makes the 24/7 BFF relationship impossible.

But guess what? It’s OK.

Next time get together with her (with no score keeping on who contacted who last) and have a great time, with NO talk about missing her, etc. Just have a good time! The best friendships pick up where they left off, even a decade later!

Blessings,

Inky

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