Dear hangdo:

You mean you think he doesn’t want you to meet other guys through the dating site because he used the word “even” if “Even if you still talk to guys..”?

The word “even” may suggest he doesn’t like it or… that he wants you to think he doesn’t like it, but it is just one word. It cannot possibly cancel the rest of what he wrote, the rest of my analysis.

I think he experienced real feelings for you and when he thinks of you, he still has some feelings for you. He wrote it himself that he has genuine feelings for you. So the word “even” can fit with this fact as well as some other things he wrote. But these genuine feelings are not enough to negate his clear message that he is not interested in a relationship with you.

He is social enough and has a girlfriend… If he was very shy, lonely and had no contact with girls, then his experience with you could seem to him like his only chance for love. But this is not the case. He is likely already experiencing feelings for other girls or will soon.

anita