Dear aheartsicklion:

Just what I thought before I read you stating it: “he would’ve abused me eventually anyway”-

His abuse of you, torturing you the way he does, that is not a… natural, understandable result of him knowing you had sex with his father. His torture of you is a result of hurt and anger on his part that predates his first alone time with you.

Reads to me like he needs psychotherapy and I understand you are not a psychotherapist. Even if you were, a psychotherapist cannot treat a boyfriend because of lack of objectivity.

This relationship needs to be terminated ASAP, please exit this sick relationship.

(Will be away from the computer for a while).