The more I talk to you guys and my close friends the more I realize that I will have to let this go for my own sanity. I will not help her or support her and if she really wants it she will find a way to do it. I have to say something to her cause I can’t continue to listen to her while we are at our moms house talk about this. I hope that life teach her a lesson and one day she learns to follow her inner voice and become a person she will truly be happy with.