Dear Butterfly:

Did you make it up, that your ex boyfriend has a deadly disease? As your effort to feel more comfortable about re-connecting with him, perhaps? I am asking because him having a deadly disease is not congruent with your previous posts where you wrote that you had long plans for him and you, a happily-ever-after future.

If so, and if you feel uncomfortable about having misrepresented the truth this way, please return to your thread. I will not negatively criticize you for having done so. If your struggle continues, I would like to attempt yet again to be helpful.

anita