Dear Butterfly:

You are definitely reasonable when you Respectfully disagree with me and I do appreciate it.

I don’t know the guy so I am not making assumptions about him. He may be an unkind, unloving man. I don’t know.
I know you feel unloved and mistreated by him.

You wrote: “The problem is that although I am willing to admit MY faults he will NEVER admit that he does anything wrong ever”-

My questions to you is: what were your faults in the context of the relationship with him?

anita