Dear funmark:

You wrote: ” I’ve asked out countless women and there’s never been a second date with one I wanted to pursue, though some I thought of as friends have fallen for me.”

If you’d like to examine further the possibility that you may be attracted to women who are not emotionally able-and-willing to love you, who need fixing so that they will love you;

and (still a possibility for you to consider, or not) that you don’t feel attracted to women who are emotionally able-and-willing to love you, who treat you well-

then let me know and we can continue.

anita