Hey Sugarhut,

It’s usual to make your own thread if you want help with an issue, but I’ll answer on here anyway. If you’re in an abusive relationship, it’s important to know who your allies are as you plan your escape. You are planning your escape, ok? And you’re now working on what you need to do to prepare to make it stick this time.

Who have you got around you that you can talk to? Who knows about the situation? Who could you turn to for help?

Copy your post into a new thread, and let us know who’s on your side in this.