Anita and Janeth – I am disappointed the way this discussion is ending. Janeth feels that her comments was misinterpreted while Anita does not feel so! So it needs further discussions / interactions – not abandonment! Go on all interactions help in strengthening our EQ!
I notice that while Jeneth expressed her feelings well the real reasons the other stake holders do not approve the relationship is not very clear. 100% of conflicts can not be resolved. If the situation can not be improved to a level where it is gladly accepted or has the probability of improving with time – one must either live with the situation (needs great emotional maturity – and apparent or hidden stress) or walk away – as Anita suggests – as a last recourse. Gita – a Holy Book of India makes it clear that absolute truth in any situation is difficult to know – we make a version of it with our mind and thoughts. We take actions based on the interpretation of the apparent truth in our mind and have to be prepared for the consequences of our actions which follow. For every action, evaluate the consequences and prepare yourself to accept them without further emotional stress.
May God bless bth of you and do continue exchanging your thoughts and be helpful friends – not just friends.