the first man was not abusive but he was screaming while get anger and blames me for everything, he really stopped caring for me. He always used to said that you are weak person. He always tried to discourage me whether in studies or job. Whatever i tried to do something, he always made me felt that i can’t do anything. He left me by saying that “he didn’t feel happy with me anymore and he only feels happy when he thinks of his Ex girlfriend”.
It really hurt me, as he was in a relationship with me for 2 years and suddenly his feelings were changed (surprisingly) It was tough for me to believe, but he broke up with me. after few days ago, I called him and asked him to be friends and he said Okay. i burst into tears and told him that i want him to come back. He got anger and said “Just get lost, you’ve ruined my life, i am taking drugs because of you. You are responsible for all this”. I was scared, i turned off my phone. At that moment, i heard a voice inside my head that “He is lying,you can’t be a reason for all this, you can’t ruin someone’s life like that, you were not there when he was taking drug you didn’t forced him either”. I stopped crying and after that i deleted his pics, his contact number and everything which could ever remind me of him. I threw all the things and burnt those papers on which i wrote my true feelings for him. I promised myself not to ever accept that person in my life again. He also never came back.

But now my current partner has just started using abusive language. that’s really hurtful. sometimes i feel like if i leave him he will never ever come back and he will never realize that his behavior was hurtful for me every time he get anger or use abusive language.
He never accepts his mistakes. (i feel that he also stopped caring, i really feel hurtful. God! I don’t know what to say what to do) should i leave him or not ? Can’t bear to lose my love again.