The hardest part for me was to understand and accept that you have no control over what the other person wants/thinks. Understanding and accepting that you can’t play games with hearts. If the other person moves on, stop staying in the mindset of hoping he/she will return; stop seeking little signs that his/her new relationship would fail, and that he/she will come back to you. The breakup happened for a reason, and there is no point in trying to rectify the situation if the other person doesn’t want the same anymore.

Charlotte