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September 20, 2016 at 7:29 pm
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AnonymousGuest
Dear Urban Sun:
I think that what fuels your increasing anxiety is that you want to move to your target country and be with your boyfriend too intensely, too desperately, too impatiently.
Relax your wanting; relax into the possibility that your petition will be rejected.
Sure you want to immigrate and you can’t make yourself not want that. I understand. But want it LESS.
anita
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