Dear neverhavethis:

You wrote above that you “want to make it right with him”

But in your original post you wrote that he is okay, he is right with himself at the present. You wrote: “I haven’t seen or spoke to Guy A in 7 years. From what i heard, Guy A is financially well off and is doing well for himself”

Why interrupt his life now- is it that you want to get involved with him now because he is financially well off?

The right thing for you to do, I believe, is learn from your mistakes for future reference with another man:

* When you are interested in a guy who already expressed interest in you, and you become available, don’t wait for him to figure out that you are available, let him know that you became available.
* When you are interested in a guy who already expressed interest in you, and he doesn’t approach you because he thinks you have a boyfriend (and you don’t), don’t have sex with his brother. Instead let the guy know that you are available for him, not for his brother.

anita