Hi flyby,

At every wedding, someone (many people!) always gets hurt. And the bride may have no idea who or why!

For example, when I got married, MY mother got the wedding SHE always wanted! I only wanted a maid of honor (my sister) and my best friend from childhood. But then The Politics: Oh, your cousins are worth more than a childhood friend, and you can’t invite that side without the other side, and if you have this person you can’t have that person, etc.

Either this was a terrific oversight, or she thought she was doing you a favor by not having to do the brides maid thing, or you were not as close as you thought.

Maybe because you never brought it up she assumed you weren’t interested. (???)

I’m sorry this happened to you. 🙁

Blessings,

Inky

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