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Kadidja
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I already dealt with my issues. I’m not like this with all of my friends. Even my friends see it too. They told me that she would rather be with her boyfriend than be with me. She would spend HOURS with him. But only a minute with me. I was always the one trying to make our friendship work. She stopped putting in effort in our relationship. I’m in college, finding a job and making sure I spend time with myself and wwith my friends. I do know how to balance my life out. She wouldn’t even message me for weeks! I understand that she has her own life butshe has her own issues too. She used to tell me what would happen with her bipolar disorder and I used to tell her my anxiety issues as well. I gave her chance after chance. Even when I would spend time being with my friends and family and with myself, a part of me just wanted to end a dead relationship and the other part kept missing her. She would be active on Facebook with her bf, forgetting about me. (Until I message her) if she can make loads of time with her boyfriend who lives in Oregon and she lIves in the UK than why she stopped making time for me. No mater how many times I told her jat I missed her, most of the time it would end with I know. I had enough of it. I did my very best to be patient with her. She knew how I felt and didn’t care.