Change happens slowly then all at once. Meaning that we aren’t usually conscious of all the small little causes behind the effect that we notice.

Come across the following “Past, present, future, all co-existing, in different dimensions, with different rates of vibration. No that that has anything to do with your situation.

Anyway I think or feel that our experience of love occurs on different planes of dimensions, each with a different “vibration”….

When I hear someone in a relationship uses the words “I don’t love you anymore” I’m never sure what they mean. I suspect if you ask your wife what she means she might not be able to tell you.

My observation has been that even for two people who really love each other, and all the “vibrating” planes, mentally, spiritually, physically (life’s demands, taking out the garbage, shelter, security…) LOVE sometimes require that the relationship end. The Calling to Become requiring separation in order to be realized.

We can’t usually articulate that calling and so use the words “I don’t love”

Likewise when love in the relationship becomes one dimensional, perhaps physical life demands of taking out the garbage, providing a home, security, paying the bills we lose ourselves. In such a case the statement “I don’t love you anymore” is really the statement “I don’t see myself anymore”.

That probably not helpful… what am I saying…
I think before you separate both of you need to take ownership of what it means when you use the word love, your relationship to the word love.

Sadly sometimes painful separation is required in order for us to Become and become more conscious of our relationship to relationship and love.

Sorry.