Hi Anne,

I have a question: Is sex before marriage taboo like pregnancy before marriage is?

I agree with Anita – with unplanned pregnancy being something so taboo, it was not intentional. I think keeping in mind that she didn’t do this to hurt you might help you to be able to face her. I’m sure she needs a friend right now considering… she probably feels alone, afraid, ashamed, aware that she’s not ready for a baby. But the baby is coming and she will do well with supportive friends and family. Try to see it from her perspective with the thought in mind that she didn’t mean to hurt you.