Thank guys for the advice. I did end up going back to my HR job. It is going well. I am much less stressed and in turn a better mom and wife at home. The drive still sucks but hopefully one day we are able to move a little closer. Part of me still feels somewhat like a failure. I was a good student in school and sometimes I feel I need to be something more, something great. That I am a failure because I am not a teacher, or doctor or something, and I like doing a low key job. When I was young everyone said how smart I was and I was going to be a doctor some day. I think I could be something greater, but I don’t like the stress of higher position job. Is that a bad thing?