Dear colourpopz:

You are welcome. Since you found this helpful, feel free to post again any time you need to.

As he continues to live in his home country, the longer he is there, the less and less (most likely) he will fit the soulmate-memories you have of him. It is extremely difficult to hold on to certain ways when such are disapproved of, frowned upon and otherwise discouraged day in and day out, week after week, month after month. I don’t know if any person can withstand such pressure. Such pressure is simply too distressing, and people give in.

anita