Hi librette,

Chasing someone is an attempt to balance out the past.

Another exercise is to Change the Script. What would happen YOU stood up The Hot Guy (for once)? If YOU didn’t return phone calls? If YOU told the Hot Guy (him hearing this perhaps for the first time in his life) “I just want you to know upfront I’m not interested in a relationship”?

Then you REWARD the nice guys when they show good behavior.

YOU are the Five Star Card.

Also watch movies where the girl is pursued by all the guys. Imagine yourself as that girl. Start with There’s Something About Mary.

Good Luck!

Inky