Dear blkhwkdwn1:

I didn’t say it was wrong of you to flirt with the other (younger women) at the club. What I am saying is that you didn’t spend quality one-to-one sober-enough time with her, so it would be better to go to coffee with her: sober and one-to-one.

How many beers/ drinks? Lets say you drink two beers, then take a break, enjoy the mellow feeling and let time go so the alcohol in your blood goes down, then drink another beer and wait. Enjoy the mellow, don’t get another drink until all the mellow is gone.

anita