Dear frida91:

You wrote: “I’m hoping someone can give me some input to what I might be feeling?”

I will try and let me know if it may be it or partly it:

For a while, you have been conflicted about whether this relationship was good for you. Your strong attachment to him was weakened some and during the month breakup, the weakened attachment to your ex allowed you to feel a- beginning-attachment to a new guy.

But your older attachment to your ex was still significantly greater, maintained by memories of closeness you had with your ex. So you went back to him, but the attachment is still weaker than it used to be, hence the off feeling.

anita