Dear blkhwkdwn1:

“Broken in half”- if you have coffee with her? I don’t understand. From the correspondences with her that you posted, she comes across as someone who likes you and cares about you, so I think it is a good idea that you do follow up on getting together for coffee. She does care even though you are not dating. Maybe you are discouraged from the awkwardness when you saw her last at her place of work?

Maybe she wasn’t feeling well (even though she looked great), maybe it is the wheat thing- never underestimate how uncomfortable for a woman (no matter how good she looks) to suffer from bloating! (bloating doesn’t feel very feminine, believe me!)

anita