Hello. Thank you for replying. I know that was a lot. The last examples was examples of things I know I shoulnd’t find annoying yet I do. I think the reason I find these small things annoying is that lately we have had a lot of fights.

The problems are that we can’t talk about issues because he feel that I talk to him like I am his psycologist but honestly I have tried everything. I don’t know how to adress issues when needed without upsetting him. He changes explanation: One day it’s: Sorry I felt bad and wanted to check if you did as well. The next it’s: Sorry I thought you had a bad night, and I was worried for you. I don’t understand why he can just be real with me and tell the truth.