Anita: I will go talk to him. Thank you for your time and the good replies 🙂

Vivian: Thanks for your concern.
You are right. The relationship has sometimes felt like it was going in the wrong direction with bad spirals.
I hadn’t seen the anger and pride coming, he seemed very subtile and humble when I knew him as a friend.
I was very annoyed after our last argument, when I asked him upfront if he felt he had learned anything and he just said “no”. As an instance response. I know he didn’t mean it. He has changed positively since. He can be prideful and sometimes childish, he can’t loose arguments and we are both very competitive, but we also learn and make progress.
I’m sure we will be able to work through anything. Afterall, he waited a year for me, a year where I dated other people right in front of him. I believe the examples I have given has only showed the bad sides of him. I wanted an advice on how to deal with certain issues, so I felt I had to give examples.
He is still my best friend to this day and he always looks out for me. He cares for all my friends, and has accepted having to deal with some bad personal issues of mine. Once he drove all the way to the inner city, crying, to pick me up because I had intoxicated myself. This is just one out of many examples. The relationship is complicated but one thing is sure. We love eachother dearly and have almost since we met.

– Thank you both for your comments. It is nice to know you have a place to go and seek help when needed. Stay well and have a nice day. 🙂