Dear Hohs:

You must be disappointed.

Getting to know yourself will be a process. Most important thing for you to know about yourself is that you are worthy, no less than any other person in the whole world, past, present and future. And so, when you are in a relationship again, you will not be overwhelmingly scared that she (whomever she is) will leave you anytime.

You will learn to tolerate distress, so even when you feel insecure, you don’t ask a woman if she will leave you.

You have a way better chance for a good relationship if you heal and learn than if you wait for a miracle.

anita