Hi roxin,

I love how when men break up with someone they imagine the girl pining away for them. Then they are genuinely surprised when she moves on or sleeps with someone before they do. You know in your heart that he only slept with some random girl so he could be “even”. He could literally have slept with anyone. Draw a name out of a hat. If it was a female over the age of eighteen he would have gone for it.

It didn’t mean anything. Believe me.

My advice: No matter how you feel, and no matter how he feels.. Even if you two have all the feels at the same time.. For your sanity and even his, have the rest of 2017 parade on without him. When (yes, when) he contacts you, even if it’s to say “I was wrong. And lucky girl ~ I’ve magnanimously decided to let you be my girlfriend again!” YOU say: “Hold that thought. Let’s talk about that this time next year.”

That is enough time for him to appreciate you. And the price he must pay, IMHO.

Blessings,

Inky