Dear Anita,

I know that I could meet someone here but I honestly don’t care whether its here or in another state cause I rarely get my feelings reciprocated anyway. I’m not going to try to pursue him because I know it’s a risky situation. I guess I want to know whether it’s worth asking how he felt after breaking up or his perspective on things. Obviously, that could go south and my heart may be broken but maybe it would be easier to completely move on. I’ve been trying to move on but it’s so difficult sometimes. I’ve been going out with friends and meeting new ones, I even went out of my way to text a guy that I used to talk to last year. But I just can’t help my feelings right now. :/