Dear Julie:

Your children need you healthy. They do not need your mother- it is YOU so needy of your mother. It is you who are chasing her for attention and dragging your kids in this desperate chase of yours.

It is your responsibility to your children to heal best you can and keep best health possible for you. You stated that your mother (and sister/s) are bad for your health.

And so, you owe it to your children to stop chasing your mother, to stop all contact with her. Let her go.

anita