Hi samira,

Two things are going on here. One is you took your BF for granted and the other is that he is in an arranged marriage. If you said “Yes” the first time would he have been free to marry you? Would his parents have allowed it? Well, what’s done is done at any rate.

You said, “No, don’t wait for me.” Then his parents set him up with a fiancée.

Now he is married. It doesn’t matter if it is consummated or not. He is married. He is also under his parents’ thumb.

I hate to say it, but move on. HE has to get a divorce if you are to have a future. To be honest, I don’t see that happening from the way you described him.

Best,

Inky