Dear samira:

In this relationship, you were mean to him many times, mocking him, making fun of him. He helped you and your family financially and you reciprocated by being mean to him.

He asked you to marry him and you refused. You rejected his marriage proposals repeatedly until two weeks before his marriage ceremony was scheduled.

You described him as an honest, decent, loving and supportive man throughout your thread until two weeks before his scheduled wedding and since.

I don’t trust your perception or claims that he is a dishonest, lying man. It reads to me like you have been the abusive person in this relationship for a long, long time. When he dropped out of University, instead of supporting him, you mocked him. And even though he dropped out of University, he paid for your studies and helped financially with your brother and mother. And yet, you mocked him.

No, samira, I don’t think you are a victim here. No injustice was done to you. If there is injustice done in this relationship, reads to me like it was done to him by you. And he allowed it.

anita