Samira, I am sorry things are so hard now. It’s truly unfortunate that he is in such a state too.

Take your time to process whatever has happened. See, both of you have had a role to play in this entire thing not working out. But reality is this only that he is married now. He is committed to another. Whatever he says or you say, this is fact.

You need to now see things outside of his plans and ideas. Earlier you were so focused in your life. Now if you are shattered, even your family will suffer. Being angry and blaming him is pointless. Blaming anyone now won’t help either. He could have done things for whatever reasons. Even you had said not to wait for you, then you changed your mind.

Whatever the case, try to see the situation for what it is and move forward. Please consider why you were refusing marriage in the first place. Your priorities were different. You wanted an independent and strong man, not just a good person.

Don’t forget who you are and what you want. Start picking up the pieces. Cut ties with him. Let his own family deal with whatever has recently happened.

You calling and worrying won’t do anything for the situation.