Dear Debbie:

Yes, excellent. I am impressed by your clear thinking- really, I don’t come across such clarity often. I didn’t have it in my mind as clearly as you put it. Crystal clear.

After I posted last to you, I was overwhelmed myself and went on a walk, did some yard work. I thought about the quote below, wanted to tell you about it.

A Winston Churchill quote: “Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing ever happened.”

Using it for women as well- and using it here for you- you came upon the truth in your last post. Truth such as this causes anxiety and distress, so most likely you will forget it and pretend it didn’t happen.

This is key in making our minds healthier and our lives meaningful: to come across the truth and not run away.

What you wrote are the facts, the bare reality of the situation. Looking more into the situation can be valuable in understanding more, how it happened, why… but other than trying to understand and learn from it, all else is a futile wishful, make believe, magical thinking- might as well contact the spell caster who spammed here, on your thread.

Hope you do post again.

anita