I thought as much.
Her demands were more of the emotional demands. Like on her birthday I took time and went the extra mile to order for a cake for her and send someone to deliver at her door step. she was happy that day do you know what? after two days we fought for an unreasonable reason. something that at the end of the day I dont know the reason for the fight. I thought by doing that she will be happy and cheerful and there will be peace in the relationship. We fight for unreasonable reasons. I have told her I hope she is not comparing our relationship to other people’s own, she say No and will then ask her so what is the problem why are you always wanting us to quarrel. For instance she may tell me I dont text her enough I will try and adjust only for her to say again I dont call enough, I will try again only for her to say I don’t say I love you enough I will do that only for her to bring up something else again. it really choked me and drained me emotionally. This I told her during the break that she was draining me emotionally and didnt treat me right.
I am trying to explain the situation to you. Because you will see the situation from an unbiase side view.
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