I recently watched an interview with Tim Ferriss where he discussed his latest book Tools of Titans. He mentioned that the common thread among successful people is the habit of some sort of meditation or mindfulness practice. So yes, I think self awareness is a requirement for you ideal life. In fact, it is likely the first step.
daydreamingbookkeeper.wordpress.com
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 