Dear jmont:

You wrote: “Few months ago, we had been fighting about his friends who are so bad influence like they take drugs..”

I understand why you didn’t like his friends, but when you start a war, most often, you lose. Fighting kills love.

There are ways to assert yourself with another without fighting. If you can’t live with another’s choices of friends, or any other life choices, let the person know, ask for what you need, if it is reasonable. Leave if you don’t get it, but don’t stay and fight and fight… and expect love and peace.

I am sorry that you are hurting and hope you learn from your experience and have a better relationship in the future.

anita