Dear peacetoall:

You are welcome. I do hope you learn all you can from this relationship and make good choices in the future.

You wrote: “I got used to the kind of ‘love’ I had with her because I never knew any other kind.”- good point. Now you do know that “love” was not love. You wrote that you were passive, lacked a backbone with her- but that did not give her the moral/ ethical right to mistreat you.

You wrote: “In reality I didnt fully trust her before it happened because of similar behavior she showed in the past with other people. But I forgave her and thought it could work.”- when she mistreated other people, it was up to them to forgive her, or not. It was up to you to learn WHO she is, but you didn’t take on that opportunity.

Best to you, post anytime.

anita