Dear Alexandra:

You suspect he fits the diagnoses of a Narcissistic Personality Disorder or an Antisocial Personality Disorder (sociopathy). After re-reading your posts on this thread, you may fit the Histrionic Personality disorder (HPD). Wikipedia states: “People with HPD have a high need for attention, make loud and inappropriate appearances, exaggerate their behaviors and emotions, and crave stimulation. They… express strong emotions with an impressionistic style…and persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs.”

And this is your behavior: “i could be crying after an argument, crying to the point anyone would come and calm me down… I left once and slept in my car at a supermarket parking..it was -2 that night and he heard me leave..he didnt message me once to see if i was safe he fell asleep and i found him in bed that morning at 6am when i walked in.” Crying a whole lot so to draw his attention and leaving at 2 am is an expression of that impressionistic style, isn’t it?

Better abandon personality disorder labels and look at the core issues. What are those core issues, do you think, the fundamental, simple issues here?

anita