Hi all,
I am wanting concise and practical advice. I have been in 9 months relationships, suddenly my girl friend decided to break up with me.

It has been a 3 months since she broke up with me. She is now sending me messages at least twice a week to find out how I am doing. I hardly send her message. Last Sunday, I asked her a question: if we were given a chance to fall in love again, would we take it? I would, would you ? She replied : Harold its time for both of us to move on…looking back wishing everything to come is only going to hurt you and you hurting yourself by wanting something that won’t happen and wishing it come back

Friends is all I want.things won’t be the same. Then we discussed a bit.

I thought, this conversation I had with her will kind of push her away.

Here she is still sending me messages. I seem not understand her intentions and why can’t she stay away from me as she said it is time for both to move on.

Your practical comments and advices will be highly appreciated.

Harold