Dear Johannah7:

When you met this man he was in a 15 year relationship with another woman. Problem is, throughout your story, throughout your relationship with him, he was STILL in a relationship with her. And I didn’t read anywhere, all the way through your post, that he ever broke up with her.

Fact is, he kept dating her, kept seeing her, going to entertainment events and restaurants. She had contact with his mother, friends, and you did not.

All this time, he has been in a relationship with another woman. Maybe this is what is so confusing to you, the simple fact that he never has been available to you. This is very sad, the pain you have gone through-

What he ever said to you doesn’t change the reality of him being … in another relationship.

anita