Dear bricklady:

A reconciliation, a getting back together is very possible. After all, he changed his mind from having no contact with you to having contact with you, beyond moving your stuff away from his home (communicating since yesterday, I understand, the plans regarding his hobby).

It is possible that there will be a getting back together following a failed attempt, on his part, to resolve his issues, and then he may get confused all over again. Prepare for all possibilities, is what I am suggesting.

I hope you benefit much from your therapy. I don’t remember reading that he will attend individual therapy for himself (?)

Post again any time you like, for as long as it helps somewhat and for as long as it doesn’t contradict or hinder your experience in your therapy.

anita